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"What Does Love Mean?" See How 4-8-Year-Old Kids Describe Love"




The Strangest Thing Men Desire. (And how it can make him crazy for you.)


Have you ever felt attracted to a guy without knowing why?



Maybe you’ve even had feelings for someone you’d rather not be attracted to. Why does this happen?







How can you fall in love even though your conscious mind resists it?


Experiences like these hint at the hidden world driving our feelings of romantic attraction. That hidden world is all about emotional reactions. Emotional reactions we don’t consciously control.


Read more here!



A group of professional people posed this question to a group

of 4 to 8-year-olds:



"What does love mean?"







See the deep answers they gave...






The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think...



  • "When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love."


Rebecca - age 8





  • "When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."


Billy - age 4




  • "Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."


Terri - age 4




  • "Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."


Danny - age 7



  • "Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss."



Emily - age 8







  • "Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."


Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)


  • "If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate."


Nikka - age 6

(we need a few million more Nikkas on this planet)




  • "Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it every day."


Noelle - age 7


"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well."



Tommy - age 6



  • "During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.


He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."


Cindy - age 8


  • "Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken."


Elaine - age 5



  • "Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is more handsome than Robert Redford."


Chris - age 7




  • "Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."


Mary Ann - age 4


  • "I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones." (Now THIS is love!)


Lauren - age 4



  • "When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." (what an image!)


Karen - age 7



  • "Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross."


Mark - age 6





  • "You really shouldn't say 'I love you unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."


Jessica - age 8



And the final one...


Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.


The winner was a four-year-old child whose next-door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.


Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.





When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,


  • "Nothing, I just helped him cry."






WOW! This is Amazing right?











When children become adults, they will likely create relationships that are similar to those they witnessed and experienced in childhood.


Familiarity is a powerful magnet. It will draw people to re-create what they were taught, even if those lessons were unfulfilling or painful.


Anxiety, possessiveness, and jealousy are the constant companions of people who suffer from insecurity in their relationships.


Fear of anticipated loss, whether substantiated or not, interferes with their ability to fully experience the positive aspects of their relationships.



What if I told you there is a kind of relationship “thirst” all men experience? A kind of thirst that’s impossible for him to quench on his own. Would you like to know what he’s so thirsty for?







The truth is, falling in love is not something we choose to do.


It’s more like getting thirsty. You don’t choose to get thirsty. You just notice it. And the stronger your thirst becomes, the harder it gets to ignore.


To skip straight to the answer, check out this video

that reveals how you can trigger his thirst for something he needs and craves.

Plus, I’ll show you how to ensure you are the ONLY person he depends on to satisfy this powerful longing.


Here’s why the man in your life can’t tell you what he craves most from his relationship with you…


He’s embarrassed to admit the truth. And that’s because admitting to this desire moves him farther away from the goal.


Here’s why…



Okay, picture a woman who feels frustrated that her man never does anything romantic. She finally breaks down and explains her desire to feel romanced and pursued by him.

But he acts like she’s being unreasonable, demanding she names one thing that’s missing from the relationship. So she gives him an example. “It would be nice to get flowers once in a while. Just simple things like that.”


The next day, he brings her flowers. But the magic of this gesture is missing. Because it doesn’t feel special to receive flowers when you had to ask for them.


It’s kind of like that with men, only with a completely different sort of relationship need. You see, men have an insatiable thirst for your admiration.



But he can’t ask for it.

He can’t say,


“Julie, I really like you, but here’s what’s missing in our relationship. You don’t admire me enough. You seem to have greater admiration for other men in your life, and that makes it hard for me to picture a future with you.”



He can’t say that because men believe you have to earn admiration. Asking for it is like trying to become popular by announcing you are a cool person. It doesn’t work like that.


He will only feel like your hero when you speak the non-verbal language of admiration. He has to read it between the lines of what you say and do.

Now, you might be thinking, “That’s not so crazy.



I can understand why a man craves admiration.” But if you’re thinking that, there’s something important I need to tell you.




I would like to listen to this song by Boy George, I love it, every time makes me happy.





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